| BDSM is abbreviated from Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. Although it may sound quite smutty, some people want to be submitted in sex, others – to be dominant. If you recollect a few moments from your intimate life, some of you, to their big surprise, will discover that they have already experimented with some elements of BDSM. Do you remember the excitement you felt when your partner was caressing you with an ice cube or a feather, you being blidfolded? That is a variant of BDSM. It can be either sadistic and painful or very erotic and arousing. It has a lot in common with a love game where one desired to be slavish and the other wants to be dominant. The roles are not fixed and partners can change them.
BDSM is not a set of strict instructions you are to observe when having sex. On the contrary, it is totally up to you and your sexual partner to pick out a scenario which will help you make your secret fantasies and cravings come true. You can use your vivid imagination to the fullest, no limits being imposed.
BDSM and abuse are opposite notions, since an abuser does not intend to please a victim. Pain and sufferings inflicted by a dominant partner to a submissive one are not that unbearable for most people. It is similar to massage, which is painful at first, but then it brings you to the peak of enjoyable sensations.
Beneath are some love games for you to spice up your sex life.
- The sexually arousing ice
Ice is considered to be one of the favourite adult accessories of all times. Blindfold and tighten your sexual partner and let him or her get physical pleasure by running an ice cube over the body. Or you may put it in your mouth and run your tongue and lips over your partner's body. For anal and vaginal excitement make an ice dildo.
- The enthralling brush
A brush is an excellent medium to make your partner excited. Blindfold and tighten your partner and stroke his or her body parts with a soft brush and a stiff brush.
- The amazing clothespin
Clothespins will also work perfectly. Clamp them on the nipples, arms, genitals and wherever you want to. Do not remove them right away. Let a thrill run through your partner's body.
- The fabulous flogger
A flogger is a whip designed for hitting sexual partner. A good flogger does not cause any damage. Nevertheless, you should be vigilant. Do not hit the lower back to avert damaging kidneys. Butts, thighs and the upper back are the best body parts to flog.
- The enticing bondage and restraint
It is recommended to make use of a regular rope to fasten up your partner. A spread-eagle position may become uncomfortable for your sexual partner and even painful. For those who prefer handcuffs, choose the ones that are double locked. They will not tie up if you put pressure or sit on them. However, always ensure that there are no sings of numbness, since excessive tightening can bring about poor circulation.
Do not be afraid of trying new things. Be inventive in the bedroom. |
